Index of Posts
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“If you follow this story all the way back to the beginning you’ll see a man who was struggling with his identity post-divorce. All of the previous experiences and dreams had failed me. As you journey with me towards today you will see healing, recovery, gratitude, and rebirth. I’m not there yet, but the journey has become the blessing. As we leave our divorces behind, great things can happen. As we grow we can become better parents, better ex-partners, and better people overall. This is my journey. Welcome.”
Posts
- Fall of the House of Dad
- 5 Early Warning Signs When Dating: Looking for Mr. or Ms. Lovejoy
- What Is Casual Sex? I Have No Experience with This…
- Tinder Matches: Is Swiping the New Evolution?
- Happy Birthday, Can You Do Some Laundry?
- What a Farty Old Dog Taught Me About Parenting, Divorce, and My Codependency
- 5 Wonderful and Unexpected Benefits of Being a Serial Monogamist
- Our Blinding Desire: When Dating Uncovers Our Vulnerabilities
- 5 First-Date Tips for Women
- Sunday Means Get Together: Or Get Alone – And Breathe
- Waiting for the Other Person to Change – The Path Towards Divorce
- Fathers Teach Their Daughters What Honest Love Looks Like
- When You’re Trying to Co-parent with a Narcissist
- Kids, I Did Not Choose to Leave You Alone In the Divorce
- Getting Quiet Again; Recovering from Another Fall Into Darkness
- Dating and Romance: It’s Always About Time
- Easier To Be Quiet: But Harder When Your Unspoken Desires Are Crushed
- Thanks for the Jetpack, Where’s the Fuel?
- The 5 Laws of Anger in Divorce and Co-Parenting
- The Off Parent – Series: love, kids, divorce, humor, release, sex
- Go Big This Time, Or Go Home: Looking for a Long-Term Relationship
- Collaborative Divorce My Ass!
- The Good Side of Divorce – Making Things Go Easier
- magnetic tagging of my bloodstream (a poem)
- blue light (a poem)
- Learning About Sex from Penthouse Forum
- in the place of loss and loneliness (a poem)
- a swarm of letters (a poem)
- not enough kisses (a poem)
- live from nipple (a poem)
- she’s got ghosts (a poem)
- and she was (a poem)
- Learning About “I Need You” vs. “I Want You”
- Every Other Saturday Night: Dating After Divorce
- The Simple Science of Online Dating – My Perspective & Process
- perched (a poem)
- how to let you go (a poem)
- Your Contempt for Me After the Divorce is Hurting All of Us
- as the night cools (a poem)
- Entering the Church of Kisses
- Losing Everything in Divorce; Learning to Carry On
- losing the thread (a poem)
- Seeking, Finding, and Gifting the Spark of Love
- i want you to know you are loved (a poem)
- leaving us (a poem)
- We Said, “Til Death Do Us Part” and You’re Not Dead Yet
- just for a second (a poem)
- this little flitter (a poem)
- How Do We Gain So Much Energy from Love? Agua y besos
- Unadulterated Love: What Is Joyful Sex?
- What Boomer Women Want In A Man – Huffington Post (My Response)
- Tired of Kissin Frogs
- Sex is Fun: Should You Settle for Apathetic Sex?
- DATING METAPHOR: Two Tails Are Wagging or Neither Tail Is Wagging
- The Sensual and the Sexual: Dating After Divorce
- it’s you, my soul told me so (a poem)
- simple love (a poem)
- pulled under (a poem)
- Dating Lessons: Gentle Catch and Release
- Online Dating Undercover Revelations: OK Cupid (Pt. 1)
- change of plans (a poem)
- Searching Online for the Last Date: Seeking THE ONE
- Seven Signs of a Healthy Post-Divorce Relationship
- The Painful Business of Divorce
- Dating Time Out: Swiping Left or Right is Wearing Me Out
- The Whimsical Blowjob & Other Unexplainable Marital Ecstasies
- she could not be caught (a poem)
- The Self-Regulation of Poetry and Longing
- Strengthening Your Core Happiness Becomes More Important After a Breakup
- The Yoga Girl Next Door; What Is An Erotic Ideal, And What Is Real?
- spitting fire (a poem)
- the farther i fall (a poem)
- The Crushing Impact of Emotional Infidelity on My Marriage
- An Ending Signals a New Beginning
- she is aspiration (a poem)
- Mis-Match in Online Dating: A 10-point Overview of Match.com
- girl in waves (a poem)
- winter berry (a poem)
- drinking winds (a poem)
- The Evolving Single Dad: Failure to Hopefulness Again
- Becoming the Frog Prince Rather Than Kissing Frogs
- wishing forward (a poem)
- her cherry christmas kisses (a poem)
- What Are the Big Relationship Questions After Divorce?
- open window (a poem)
- 5 Big Relationship Questions to Answer Before You Start Dating Again
- patterns (a poem)
- she takes her shirt off (a poem)
- Our Sexual Brain and the Lies It Tells Us
- for the trees (a poem)
- i want to live (a poem)
- imagine an ending (a poem)
- ready to be away (a poem)
- spirit dancer (a poem)
- always arriving (a poem)
- rainy in ny (a poem)
- how many women (a poem)
- grey moon (a poem)
- never saw that coming (a poem)
- morning, back to bed (a poem)
- and there she was… (a poem)
- like lemonade (a poem)
- it is getting late (a poem)
- Maybe I Needed An Angry Ex-wife to Push Me: To Feel Anger
- girl i once knew (a poem)
- The Divorce Recovery Path: My Journey Back to Joy (part 1)
- i am a room full of chairs (a poem)
- Sexual Frequency and Happiness: How Much Sex Can I Expect?
- walk me through the changes (a poem)
- too fast for me (a poem)
- slipping into something more comfortable (a poem)
- she sets herself on fire (a poem)
- man under water (a poem)
- thin white line (a poem)
- not yet here (a poem)
- limitless (a poem)
- how each new adventure begins (a poem)
- just press play (a poem)
- intoxicating desire
- The Long Tail of Parenting and Custody After Divorce
- The Data Set of My Divorce: Adding Things Up
- Asking My Partner, “Are You Having Sex? Because I’m Not.”
- The Nap Was a Source of Great Conflict In My Marriage. Why?
- Divorce Recovery: Loving Yourself Better, So You Can Eventually Love Again
- Tilting the Planet In My Favor
- Negotiating Love and Desire: Dating as a Healing Journey
- Beyond the Rush of Love, Is the Test of Time
- Trusting Your Unreliable Ex: As a Single Dad I Had No Other Option
- Sexual Energy and the Power of #Desire in Men and Women
- The Ties That Bind: My Father’s Day Wish for My Son
- I Think I’ll Take a Lover: Or What’s In It For Me?
- Deal Breakers, Red Flags, and Hand Grenades: Relationship Building 101
- Wait. I’m the Father of Your Children, Remember?
- Rationalizing Your Divorce
- The Story I Never Wanted to Write: An Ending Arrives with a Storm
- Dear Ex-Wife, You’re Missing the Point
- big night at whole foods
- Recovery and Why the Okay Counselor is Not Enough
- love loving love
- What Every Dad Loses In Divorce
- What I Can’t Get Over or Forgive
- Just Be Mad, Don’t Be Passive Aggressive
- Why My Ex-Wife Can Never Say She’s Sorry
- I’m Sorry for All the Things I’ve Done and Said…
- Another Reach for Power and Control After Divorce
- My Ex-Wife Never Was All That Honest
- I May Never Reach Serenity with my Ex-Wife
- The Wonderful World of Parenting Hell on Social Media
- #dad #divorce #depression * telling my side of the divorce story
- Showing Up In Spite of the Lizards (Surviving the Depression)
- Admitting My Depression Publicly
- What I’m Missing Today as a Divorced Dad
- The Divorced Dad and the Goodbye Monday Blues
- The Complaining Never Ends, Even After Divorce
- Taking Dad for Granted After Divorce
- The Office of the Attorney General, Child Support Division
- it’s me and the coffee cup today
- in my blue bedroom
- Without Blame or Malice: My Unresolved Divorce Anger is Mine Alone
- Not Winning At Divorce
- The Game of Divorce
- The Non-Rational Divorce
- I Try to Forgive My Ex-Wife, But I’ll Never Forget
- alone for the day
- i can only tell you how much i love you in two languages
- loving you in many distant cities
- The Edge of Tomorrow with my Ex-wife
- Who Is The Off Parent
- A Thin Line Between Love and Hate: Marriage to Divorce
- With the Gun to My Head, The Ex Pretends to Play Fair
- Bang! The Lies My Wife Projected On to Me
- mvd2.0
- her surrounding love
- Passive Aggressive Mis-Communication
- Where the Sidewalk Ends
- You Are Ahead by a Century: A Dads Divorce Story
- Getting Too Close to the Sun: Single Dad Hits the Depression Wall
- Co-parenting with an Angry Ex: My co-parenting Failure Story
- The Unbearable Weight of Things
- more than a love poem
- With the Time I Have Left: Keep Climbing the Hill
- Little Ghosts Still Flutter My Heart
- When Will I Get Over My Divorce?
- Money is a Bitch After Divorce
- Dating a Divorced Parent: How Can We All Stay Connected?
- A Quick-Start Guide for the Divorcing Dad: The Off Times
- The Divorce Part You’ll Never Understand: Living Within the Compromise
- Children and Divorce Statistics
- Giving the Blunt Mom Her Due
- The Humans Of Divorce, Dear AG’s Office Special Cases Officer Mr. McK!
- And Just As We Reach A Calm Moment
- The Problem Always Seemed To Be Me
- Beautiful Women and Two Cups of Coffee: How This All Got Started
- Flogging the Deadbeat Dad
- Turning the Other Cheek to Your Angry Ex – Because There’s No Other Option
- You and Your Body are Amazing
- Confronting God Alone, After Divorce
- a love poem so big
- What I Continue to Misunderstand About My Ex-wife
- may i be gentle always
- What You Gave Up On Is Still Shining In Me
- I Want To Thank You for the Divorce
- along the beach
- the art of holding hands
- walking in nyc
- into the heart of the sun
- sky high
- splendored
- love times five
- When Kids, Money, and Divorce Collide
- the girl the girl the girl
- and know i love you
- Appreciating Your Partner’s Exes
- After Divorce w/ Kids: You Won’t Believe How Good It Can Get
- the hunger
- entwine and twirl
- in her little toe i find an expression of love
- Am I Back? What’s New, What’s Changed, What Will I Do Differently?
- v 2 m
- a grasp at a dream
- virtual check-in
- if you are her
- Her Unfair Advantage and My Loaded Weapon: Divorce Wars
- what if i
- Back to the Beginning: Serenity with Your Coparent
- she says yes
- The Blurry Lines Between Divorced Parents: Entitlement & Narcissism
- The Best Will Come Out, Eventually… But First This
- Texts From the Ex. What’s the Crisis?
- My Ex and Her Anger: Give Me a Bullet to Bite On
- The Winter of My Discontent: Ex-Partners and Co-Parents
- just imagine
- all around me are smiles
- Patience Please, I’m Doing The Best I Can
- the distance
- dialing back desire
- You Should Go For What Makes You Happy (Divorce Me)
- somewhere she’s laughing
- she surrounds me now
- resonance
- This Is Going To Hurt – Divorce With Children
- “Another In a Long Series of Disappointments,” she joked.
- love will find us
- calling all lovers
- Sexy Sex and the Other Two Kinds of Romantic Relationship
- It’s the Quiet Time, the Alone Time, the Empty Spaces
- We’re All Happy Now, After the Divorce
- Is Marriage a Cliché? How Mine Fell Apart Along Party Lines
- physics between us
- dateless
- dark falling
- shooting arrows at the moon
- Things Broken and Unsaid: From Marriage to Divorce
- unanswered letters
- i am i
- afternoon fires
- easy escape for us
- this is not about her
- she overtakes me
- she is late, or missing, or lost
- imaginary you
- before the transformation
- in the flames of future lovers
- Redefining Dating, As a Man, As a Dad, As a Lover
- i can see
- endless flight
- how do we lose touch
- a momentary venus
- Fundamental Flaw at the Beginning of My Marriage
- love and what was missing
- almost probably dreaming you
- sounding in the cold
- here we are
- The Lover I Had This Time Last Year: Seeking a Long-Term Relationship
- fall window
- What Is the Sexual Obligation Between a Married Couple?
- maybe tomorrow
- forgive me if i go poetic
- Everyone Loses In Divorce – What We Can Never Get Back
- cherish is the word
- a step towards you
- not this perfect morning
- halfway home
- take action
- easy surrender
- Two Tips to Being A Better Man (NSFW)
- tiny epiphanies
- i am, i can, i will, pause
- glistening
- where you are not
- My Funny Man Divorce: A Little Bill Murray a Touch of Robin Williams Mixed w/ Ferris Bueller
- permanent word loss
- burning up in prayer
- embrace
- For Hire: Used Husband, Classic Model, Works Well With Kids
- organic sweetness
- actively waiting in your absence
- Haunted By the Ghost of a Kiss
- of course i think about you
- a late start
- eager for the game
- Tinder Dating is New and Fun and Lacking Most Filters
- Divorce Statistics 2014 – the infographic
- bella
- Girl Gone: She Doesn’t Need Or Want My Attention
- If You Were a Car, What Car Would You Be? And Why?
- strength and softness
- are you the one who passes by
- She Came On Like a Freight Train – The Woman Who Says “Yes”
- i could fall in love with a dress if it shone in the sun
- She’s Still Mad at Me: My Ex-wife’s Anger Issues Are Still Strong
- Free, the Poet – My Soul Podcast Interviews The Off Parent
- Love at the Speed of Text or Tinder or … f a s t
- The Happy, the Fit, and the Beautiful
- First Date Lessons: If You’re Not Falling, You’re Not Learning
- Isn’t Dad’s House Is Also Important In Divorce?
- My Casual Sex Experience – First Lesson
- Casual Crossfit Sex
- What An Angry or Distant Divorced Parent Looks Like
- The Fk You That Keeps On Giving
- AG’s Office Round Two: Dead Beat Dad – 0, Bank $43,000
- An Early Frost: Dating Options and Casual Sex
- be as beautiful as you are
- joy or i’m gone
- lost lady madonna
- any muse will do
- If Age is Just a Number Why Do I Still Want to Lie About It?
- When Did Our Halos Lose Their Sparkle? A Marriage Comes Apart
- where to find me
- essential rumi
- new entry
- I Was a Happily Married Man, and Now I’m Not: Tiny Hints of Doom
- pendulous motion
- Erectile Misfire Might Be More About the Sex Than the Dysfunction
- poetic naps
- up and away
- goodnight and go
- a dream undone
- Urban Fit Uber Cute Couple Bias – UFUCC
- temper the joy
- Opposites Attract: Pheasants and Porcupines Looking for Love Together
- dark woundings of my own
- The Infinitely Desirable Woman with the Fractured Soul
- please stay gone
- Divorce Support: For the Children *and* the Parents
- Terms of My Surrender: Our Divorce Papers
- 18 Reasons Why Porn Is Not All Bad: Is There Healthy Porn?
- some distant storm
- 17 Simple Ways to Say “I Love You”
- No Divorce Expert: But If You Parent 50/50 You Should Divorce 50/50
- Sexual Intelligence: Getting It Together About Getting It On
- My Divorce: A Searching and Fearless Moral Inventory
- wet
- an infinite goodbye
- Dating A Divorced Dad: We Might Be Good For Each Other
- this very last second of love i have for you
- The 1st and 2nd Time I Knew My Marriage Was Finished
- ready for the yes
- The Promise in a Thumbnail; Online Dating Hits and Misses
- goddess in a little black dress
- Five Ways to Avoid Bad Sex
- don’t tell me how it ends
- Walking Away from the Wreckage of a Failed Relationship
- Perils of Dating a Relationship Blogger, Especially If You Know
- it’s three o’clock
- a little love poem
- the hunger and the beauty
- no dream
- Taking a Break from Online Dating: Offline for the Summer
- in between
- Deadbeat Dad Doesn’t Strike Back
- my dos equis
- Love, War, Divorce: Why I’m Not Fighting My Ex-Wife About Custody
- The Malleable Trajectory of Desire in Online Dating
- and the return message
- the less i say
- arriving at now
- Divorce is Not About What’s Fair, Let’s Get That Straight
- the church of women
- Best and Worst of Father’s Day This Year
- the green bike girl
- In Defense of Dalliance
- Getting Angry, Reaching Forgiveness, and Moving On After Divorce
- Infidelity Modern Style: The Science of Cheating
- no longer feel her
- Online Dating Undercover Revelations: OK Cupid (Pt. 2)
- Zen and the Art of Lovemaking – Won’t Save Your Marriage
- All Kinds of Women and the Sparks of Desire
- rushing into
- Negativity and Isolation: Branching Out To Avoid Breaking Up
- Fractured Women: Learning About Boundaries in Dating Again
- No Means No
- slight
- Three Loves: Eros, Filial, Agape
- gone bye bye
- symphony and storm
- Dating After Divorce – Kindle/Nook Available
- the song i sing
- Little Turnoffs: On a First Date with a Woman
- Divorced and Dating Again: What’s the Worst That Could Happen?
- i knew
- Browsable Women: The Three Hells of Online Dating
- Sex, Love, and Relationships: Dating Is A Bit Like Space Travel
- What’s This About Marriage? (Post-divorce Plans)
- awaiting (a poem)
- Too Positive, Too Optimistic? A Blind Side.
- all the way
- Single Dad: Losing Touch in the Off Times
- Dating Etiquette – This Is How I Want It To Be
- On the Turning Away: Fighting with Your Ex About Money
- it’s just desire
- ember
- More Sexual Signals, Online Dating Thoughts & Self-Observations
- no longer vivid
- piano lessons and a show
- the absence
- outside edges
- The Taste of Tail Feathers Again – The Online Dating Breakdown
- shimmer
- A Little Sex Talk About Dating Divorced Moms
- let’s pretend nothing sparked
- brightness of desire
- arriving at any time
- You Know They’re Watching You, Right?
- imagine this rain
- and you are alight
- The Divorce Whisperer
- Can Things Get Worse In My Divorce? Yes, Easy!
- Tell Me Again, Why You Think This Is a Good Idea?
- exquisite coffee
- single dad
- receding moon
- Dating Tips for Modern Adults: Texts, Facebook, Profiles, Phonecalls
- The Woman Who Slept With Pitbulls
- the beat and beat and pause
- What Is A Love Poem?
- i am wrapping pillows
- Is This Not A Divorce Blog Anymore? WTF?
- afternoon here
- against beauty
- fall and falling and me
- accidental angels
- sera sera sera
- magnetic joy
- Re-finding My Dick After Divorce
- eyes to the bottom of the pool
- How To Jack Your Ex-Partner’s Day
- Candy Crush in Co-Parenting: Here Comes Halloween
- in the coils
- the slivered moon
- Of Course You’re Not Happy With Me, We’re Divorced
- seeking each moment
- girl on fire
- A Fool and His Money Soon Go Separate Ways
- Drifting Apart: The New Girl Becomes The Muse
- Happy Mom Chat About How I Got Here: What I Figured Out
- Surprising Myself and Contradicting Everything All At Once
- Check Engine Light: How Long Until Repairs Are Forced By a Breakdown?
- Porn Addiction and Men vs. Women (And a Don Jon Movie Review)
- Blended Family Mating Call; Or How Do You Find a Sane Single Mom?
- I Am Failing In One Critical Area Of Life
- what can i tell you from here?
- Moving Forward and Reassessing In The Moment After a Breakup
- a glow
- Her Lover When We Met
- word after word seeking another
- fall arriving
- A New Blog and a New Journey
- safety is not the issue
- Dating Part-time After Divorce: I Get It, It Is Hard To Make Time
- Separating Stories and Seeking Purpose After Divorce with Kids
- ready
- as i imagine
- Marriage and Money: A Fairy Tale
- Maybe My Unhappy Ex-Wife Is Simply Unhappy
- Gone. A Pause at Summer’s End.
- Stages of Attractiveness In Approaching Potential Partners
- burning
- The Light At the End of the Tunnel, It’s Yours
- DIVORCE: What I Need To Tell You: Take Heart. It Gets Better.
- aspirational
- calm cool purrs all around
- What You Took Away; What I Get To Remember
- Last Good Moment Before the Storm: Rockstar Fantasy Camp
- peacefully anticipating someone
- an easy wish
- I Must Be Insane: It’s the End of the World, and I Feel Fine
- Giving Up On Me, and Why I Still Hate What You Did
- Creative Parenting and the Gifts of Enthusiastic Participation
- Better Off Divorced – 3 Years Later Celebrating My Independence
- she will remain beautiful and undisturbed
- More Play Summer: Keeping Your Joy After Divorce
- unanswered
- this potential
- unease and marginal effect
- the most beautiful girl in the world (a poem)
- A Moment of Self-Care Might Be In Order
- i believe, i pray, i fly
- Unavailable Women of Desire: And Why I Can’t Resist Them
- A Son’s Sadness on Father’s Day
- Another Single Father’s Day
- alight with desire
- Sex and the “Wanna Be With You” Vibe
- this very moment
- these configurations of we
- and in that moment, when you knew
- it’s about time
- Oh First Date Closure, What Are You Saying?
- i could be back here in an hour
- The Beginning of the End: Losing Touch In My Marriage
- A Moment of Zen With the Ex-Wife
- How I Went from Good Guy Dad to Dead Beat Dad
- you’re a song i want to sing
- Winning the Battle, Losing the War: Divorce and Co-parenting
- Stinging the Hand that Feeds
- creating believing solo
- modern love notes
- Casual Red Dresses and Hints of Victoria’s Secret Beneath
- Promises and Lies In Online Dating Profiles
- endless running
- Breaking Up and Getting Over It: Someday We’ll Know
- Me, Deadbeat Dad? Um… (Problems with Custody and Child Support)
- Here and Now: Touching Objects of Desire & Dating Younger Women
- anticipating the rain with you
- Finding Adoration
- Love and War; It’s all Here – Seeking Love and Peace
- The Relationship Strategy: Moving Beyond Divorce
- On The Planet of Over Thinking: Sublimating Desire
- Relationship Chemistry or Heat? Are We Losing Charge or Building Up Energy?
- Dropping the Parenting Bomb on Your Ex Unexpectedly
- she believed in kissing
- i want to know again
- Little Ecstasies In the Afternoon: How a Nap is a Bit Like Sex
- she is on the other side of the window
- little bird
- Not Obeying the Speed Limits, Enjoying the Daily Journey
- Making Love to Parker Posey
- travel together
- Girlfriend 2.0 Startup Initialization Sequence: Step 1: Kissing
- Waiting On Repairs
- twist of the hip
- after the state of getting
- Sex Without Desire Is More Like Porn Than Lovemaking
- The Hierarchy of Needs: Sex and the Hookup Culture
- This April’s Fool: Today I Napped When I Should’ve Walked
- She Would’ve Liked Me To Just Leave the House
- Making a Will As a Single Parent: Sooner Rather Than Later
- she is here – an incantation and poem
- Cheating Hearts, Cheating Minds
- There Is No Fountain of Youth; Let’s Find A Deeper Level of Connection
- The Drama of Divorce and Money: The Deadbeat Dad Myth
- The Next Chapter to Write: Picture a Girl…
- Heart On My Sleeve: How Could You Not Tell Me About This?
- Flight 7, Bound for Destinations Unknown, Grounded
- Sittin Here on Valentine’s Day
- The Feeling of Falling In Love: Your Online Dating Proposal
- Divorce Statistics Infographic – The Low Down About Divorce
- On Domestics, Exotics, and Sports Cars (An Aspirational Relationship Metaphor)
- love song for an ex
- she is silenced in my back pocket
- Trying to Talk About Sex with My Wife: Texting In Bed
- Alone is Different Than Aloneliness After Divorce
- Happy New Year, Ex-Husband, I Need More Money
- Sex in the Marriage: Condition Grounded But Determined to Try
- Sexy Lingerie Twice In My Marriage: Honeymoon and That One Time…
- Online Dating: Setting Your Sights for WOW and Browsing the Herd
- Incredible Orgasms Didn’t Save My Marriage
- Oh, “that” Conversation Comes Up – Post-Divorce Holidays
- Kiss Kiss Bang Bang: Waking Up My Passionate Lover
- Like Father Like Brother Like Son
- Regain Confidence & Be Happy After Divorce [guest post]
- To Love and Be Loved (Dating After Divorce)
- Divorce Growing Pains: Accepting that She Doesn’t Want Reconciliation
- What You Can’t Leave Behind After Divorce
- Since My Last Confession
- Loneliness. Fessing Up When Things Hurt for No Apparent Reason
- Single Parenting Magic – The SPO Has Given a Happy Moment
- How Much Longer Until I Feel Better? (Post-divorce Depression)
- Nobody Is Going to Hold Your Dream for You
- In Love With the Idea of Loving You, Or Perhaps Her, Or Maybe Her…
- A Moment of Enlightenment Has Arrived: The Path I’m Leaving Behind
- This Father’s Day Is Better Than the Rest
- Met My Match: My Online Dating Near Miss Responds
- Harsh Awareness: I Wouldn’t Date Me – What Am I Looking for After Divorce?
- Recently Divorced, I Discover that Untethered Joy Is My Natural State
- Nothing Left – A New and Welcome Emptiness Between Us
- Flat Out Broke: Money Survival Basics After Divorce
- Losing the Little Black Dress and Losing Touch
- I See You – Losing that Loving Perspective
- The Language of Divorce – Like a Stranger In a Strange Land
- The Close of Business Between Us: Taking Back the Heart of Darkness
- Doing Well Is the Best Revenge; Should Be Served Cold
- The Ballet Dancer and the Buddha – Do We Have a Disconnect?
- A Road Trip to Fantasy and a Drive Home to Reality
- Followed by the Black Dog (of depression)
- When I Stopped Believing – And Started Growing Up
- “Watch out squirrel!” I Needed To Shout This Today: “Fk You!”
- Cherry PopTarts and Love (fathers & daughters in divorce)
- She Was Certain Her Anger Was About Me
- Going Without – The Loneliness of Standard “Possession” Orders
- The Monday Morning Drop Off and The Longing of the Off Parent
- Folding Her Clothes and Folding My Desire
- Putting Online Dating in Perspective
- Thursday Happier Hour and the SPO (Standard Possession Order) Morass
- Racing Into Love & Right Through the Exit: How Did We Get To the End Again So Quickly?
- Why Blog About This? What’s The Point?
- Ferris Bueller Gets a Divorce – My Dad’s Divorce Blog – The Movie
- Anger is Energy – If You Don’t Thrash
- Iron Man 2: Divorced Dad’s Review – Hidden Messages At My Ex – I’m No Tony Stark
- Just Being Dad Is Enough: A Hot Summer and a Ghost Horse
- I’m Getting a Divorce: Changing My Facebook Status
- Pine Tree Air Fresheners: A Cultural Difference or I Just Don’t Get It
- The Sound of Snow. “The kids will probably be home soon.”
- Online Dating from the Other Side
- Valentine’s Day Tweets
- Tale of Two Ladies; The Dichotomy of Priorities (beauty vs brains)
- Your New Matches: Online Dating and the Big Miss
- Missing My Dad and Becoming a Better Dad on Father’s Day
- perhaps you were a cat from another country
- Depression is No Joke: Suicide is Not the Answer to Any Question or Problem
- We Ran Into Her First Ex-Husband At a Titty Bar
- Strike Two! The Could’a Should’a Would’a Online Date Clips My Wings
- Stepping Back Into the Breach; Dating Again After Divorce
- Songs For Divorce – the redirect
- Feeling Again or NOT Feeling Again
- “If You Leave Me I’ll Have Nothing,” she said.
- It Never Fails and Then Fails Completely: The Promise of the “Match”
- My Online Dating Records
- Gratitude and Platitudes After Divorce
- A Once and Future King
- Dialing In My Ideals In a Woman: From Hippie to High Class
- The Women of Mad Men: Pick Your Type
- The End of a Relationship Is Like A Rubberband Breaking
- I Loved Everything About You
- The Death of Desire
- The Trick Is Not to Become Bitter – Signing the Papers
- And Like That, The World of Possibilities Is Endless Again
- Lack of Sex
- Down To the End Game
- Looking for the Ring: Am I a Hound Dog Now?
- Stay At Home Mom: A Dream Unfulfilled
- I Guess You’re Right: I UnFriended You
- Picture This: A Beautiful Deaf Girl, 29, Working In a Titty Bar
- Team Dad, “Even When We Can No Longer Be Together”
- Stealing Home – “walking out of my house for the last time”
- Wisdom from the trenches – “responsible separation”
Pages
- The Purple Thread - Love, Lust, Sex
- Divorce Training: Dad Losing and Rediscovering the Meaning of Life
- Jetpack for Divorcing Dads - The First *Off Parent* Book
- The Red Thread - How Anger Is Necessary and Powerful
- The Black Thread: Depression and Recovery from Depression
- Centering Prayers & Meditations
- The Hard Stuff
- Single Parenting
- On Dating Again
- Resources & Diversions
- Poetry
- Laugh It Off
- Divorce Reading List
- Songs of Divorce
- Index of Posts
- About
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