On Dating Again
These posts are about the process of healing yourself, and rediscovering what you are looking for in a dating experience and ultimately a relationship. In the journey of divorce recovery, dating is a big step towards feeling appreciated and loved again.
TOP POST: The Relationship Strategy: Moving Beyond Divorce
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LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP
- The Coffee Date Fail
- Sexual Energy and the Power of #Desire in Men and Women
- Uh Oh, She’s Not Perfect, Not Even Close… Pitfalls of Dating Again After Divorce
- Beautiful Women and Two Cups of Coffee: How This All Got Started
- The Lover I Had This Time Last Year
- Dating Time Out: Swiping Left or Right is Wearing Me Out
- Gentle Catch and Release
- Unadulterated Love: What Is Joyful Sex?
- Reversing the Flow: Putting Women in Charge of Courtship
- Big 5 Relationship Questions to Answer Before You Start Dating Again
- The Cute and Happy Woman is Nearby, I’ve Seen Her
- She Came On Like a Freight Train – The Woman Who Says “Yes”
- The Happy, the Fit, and the Beautiful
- My Casual Sex Experience – First Lesson
- Crossfit Sex
- An Early Frost: Dating Options and Casual Sex
- If Age is Just a Number Why Do I Still Want to Lie About My Age?
- 5 Early Warning Signs When Dating: Looking for Ms. Lovejoy
- Erectile Misfire Might Be More About the Sex Than the Dysfunction
- Casual Sex. What? I Have No Experience with This…
- Vengeance Dating Syndrome (a Post-divorce Pattern)
- The Honey Trap: How Beauty Can Lead Us Astray
- Burn the Maps!
- Little Turnoffs: On a First Date with a Woman
- Aqua y besos: How Do We Gain So Much Energy from Love?
- The Sensual and the Sexual
- What’s the Worst That Could Happen?
- Top 5 First Date Tips for Women
- Beyond the Rush of Love
- Our Sexual Brain and the Lies it Tells Us
- Sex Rules: The Frequency, the Fun, and the Fantasy
- Browsable Women: The Three Hells of Online Dating
- Relationships and Dating Are A Bit Like Space Travel
- Blinding Desire
- Learning About “I Need You” vs. “I Want You”
- What’s This About Marriage?
- The Taste of Tail Feathers Again
- A Little Sex Talk About Dating Divorced Moms
- The Six Rules of Online Dating: Seeking Chemistry and Everything Else
- The Relationship Strategy: Moving Beyond Divorce
- Dating Part-time After Divorce: I Get It, It Is Hard To Make Time
- Finding Adoration
- Stages of Attractiveness In Approaching Potential Partners
- Surprising Myself and Contradicting Everything All At Once
- What Are the Big Relationship Questions After Divorce?
- Whole Adult Beings: Knowing Ourselves, Knowing What We Won’t Compromise
- Here and Now: Touching Objects of Desire
- Unavailable Women of Desire
- The Last One
- Seeking, Finding, and Gifting the Spark of Love
- Not Obeying the Speed Limits, Enjoying the Daily Journey
- Go Big This Time, Or Go Home
- Sex Without Desire Is More Like Porn Than Lovemaking
- The Simple Science of Online Dating – My Perspective & Process
- The Hierarchy of Needs: Sex and the Hookup Culture
IN RELATIONSHIP
- Passive Aggressive Mis-Communication
- The Off Parent: You Won’t Believe How Good It Can Get
- Deal Breakers, Red Flags, and Hand Grenades: Relationship Building 101
- Seven Signs of a Healthy Post-Divorce Relationship
- Walking Away from the Wreckage
- Perils of Dating a Relationship Blogger, Especially If You Know
- Fractured Women: Learning About Boundaries in Dating
- No Means No
- Dating Etiquette – This Is How I Want It To Be
- Drifting Apart: The New Girl Becomes The Muse
- On The Planet of Over Thinking: Sublimating Desire
- Casual Red Dresses and Hints of Victoria’s Secret Beneath
- It’s Always About Time
- On The Planet of Over Thinking: Sublimating Desire
- Oh, “that” Conversation Comes Up – Post-Divorce Holidays
- Kiss Kiss Bang Bang
- Entering the Church of Kisses
- Girlfriend 2.0 Startup Initialization Sequence: Step 1: Kissing
- I Think I’ll Take a Lover: Or What’s In It For Me?
- Racing Into Love & Right Through the Exit: How Did We Get To the End Again So Quickly?
- The Woman Who Slept With Pitbulls
DATING ONLINE & IN REAL LIFE
- Mis-Match in Online Dating: A 10-point Overview of Match.com
- The Promise in a Thumbnail; Online Dating Hits and Misses
- The Malleable Trajectory of Desire in Online Dating
- Online Dating Undercover Revelations: OK Cupid (Pt. 2)
- Negotiating Love and Desire
- Online Dating Undercover Revelations: OK Cupid (Pt. 1)
- All Kinds of Women and the Sparks of Desire
- More Sexual Signals, Online Dating Thoughts & Self-Observations
- Dating Tips for Modern Adults: Texts, Facebook, Profiles, Phonecalls
- Every Other Saturday Night: Dating After Divorce
- Blended Family Mating Call; Or How Do You Find a Sane Single Mom?
- What Boomer Women Want In A Man – Huffington Post (My Response)
- Making Love to Parker Posey
- The Yoga Girl Next Door; What Is An Erotic Ideal, And What Is Real?
- The Feeling of Falling In Love: Your Online Dating Proposal
- Met My Match: My Online Dating Near Miss Responds
- Harsh Awareness: I Wouldn’t Date Me – What Am I Looking for After Divorce?
- Becoming the Frog Prince Rather Than Kissing Frogs
- Tired of Kissin Frogs
- Oh First Date Closure, What Are You Saying?
- Losing Charge or Building Up Energy?
- Promises and Lies In Online Dating Profiles
- We Have a Tail Wag, But What Are the Touch Points?
- Sittin Here on Valentine’s Day
- Tilting the Planet In My Favor
- There Is No Fountain of Youth; Let’s Find A Deeper Level of Connection
- The Next Chapter to Write: Picture a Girl…
- Flight 7, Bound for Destinations Unknown, Grounded
- On Domestics, Exotics, and Sports Cars (An Aspirational Relationship Metaphor)
- Online Dating: Setting Your Sights for WOW and Browsing the Herd
- To Love and Be Loved (Dating After Divorce)
- In Love With the Idea of Loving You, Or Perhaps Her, Or Maybe Her…
- The Ballet Dancer and the Buddha – Do We Have a Disconnect?
- A Road Trip to Fantasy and a Drive Home to Reality
- Putting Online Dating in Perspective
- Tale of Two Ladies; The Dichotomy of Priorities (beauty vs brains)
- Your New Matches: Online Dating and the Big Miss
- Strike Two! The Could’a Should’a Would’a Online Date Clips My Wings
- Stepping Back Into the Breach; Dating Again After Divorce
- It Never Fails and Then Fails Completely: The Promise of the “Match”
- My Online Dating Records
- Dialing In My Ideals In a Woman: From Hippie to High Class
- The Women of Mad Men: Pick Your Type
- And Like That, The World of Possibilities Is Endless Again
see also / poetry: making love to other women / a coffee love letter / misconfigurations of love
image: by permission ricardo acevedo, from the book Night
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